Prayers for friendship and community

Hurt by a friend

For finding, keeping, and being a real friend.

Also for hurt by a friend · friend betrayed me · friendship broke down · best friend hurt me · friend let me down · friendship conflict · falling out with a friend · betrayed by someone close

A man of many companions may be ruined, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
Proverbs 18:24, World English Bible
Yes, my own familiar friend, in whom I trusted, who ate bread with me, has lifted up his heel against me.
Psalm 41:9, World English Bible
The wounds of a friend are faithful, although the kisses of an enemy are profuse.
Proverbs 27:6, World English Bible
“If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother.
Matthew 18:15, World English Bible
bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.
Colossians 3:13, World English Bible
Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
Ephesians 4:31-32, World English Bible

A prayer

Original writing, not a quotation of Scripture.

Lord, what my friend did cut deeper because I trusted them, and I didn't expect to be hurt by someone that close. Help me process this honestly instead of pretending it doesn't sting. Show me whether this friendship can be repaired or whether I need to grieve it and let it go.

Either way, keep bitterness from taking root in me. Give me wisdom about what to say, and grace to forgive even if the friendship doesn't look the same again. In Jesus' name, Amen.

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